Archive for June, 2008

Are you like everyone else? Or That thing about Oprah

Monday, June 30th, 2008


Sometimes being like everyone else is a bad idea. Last week the pew

Research Center released the results from their research on the spirituality of Americans. It may be surprising to you, but 92% of people believe in God. That’s pretty cool. 78% of people believe there are absolute standards of right and wrong. That is still a strong percentage.

 

Here’s the part where I have to step into the minority and invite you to do the same. More than 50% of people find their absolute sense of right and wrong from “practical experience and common sense.” Less than 1/3 – (29%) find their right and wrong from religion.

 

So, let’s break this down a little bit….

 

92% of people believe in a God. If there is a God, then by default, by definition God would define the ultimate right and wrong.

 

If God exists, then by logical deduction, we will not be able to understand the way He works – if we could, then He would not be God.

 

Which brings us to how do we determine right from wrong. Here’s where I must completely turn away from the majority. I cannot – and this one of the fundamentals of true spirituality – I cannot on my own determine what is right and wrong – or I would be God.

 

This idea of being able to determine right and wrong is becoming epidemic in our culture. I think Oprah, whom I have considered to be a very talented broadcaster, has deeply missed the mark. This is from a transcript of a webcast found on her website:

 

OPRAH WINFREY (HOST): And she [talking about an another author] talks about old spirituality versus the new spirituality, and she says the old was—the old way is—the hierarchy has the authority. Church authorities tell you how to worship in church and how to behave outside of church. The new spirituality is that you are your own best authority as you work to know and love yourself, you discover how to live a more spiritual life.OPRAH WINFREY (HOST): The old is, “God and the path to worship him have already been defined, and all you need to do is follow the directions.” The new is being able to listen within for your own definition of spirituality, your deeper longings are under search. And the old says exact here what Eckhart was saying. That there’s only one path. It’s the right way and all other ways are wrong. And the spirituality says that many paths lead to spiritual freedom and peace.OPRAH WINFREY (HOST): You have a rich array of gems from which to draw illumination. The world’s religious traditional, mythology, psychology, healing methods, scientific wisdom, your own experience and that you can begin to string a necklace all your own. Then she lists, you know, other old and new. And so it’s really a question of what you were saying to us earlier that this material strikes a chord within you.OPRAH WINFREY (HOST): Something in you opens up and wants, you know, feels alive and is awakened to that. And yet there is the ideology that says what to you? What is the conflict for you?KELLY (

ILLINOIS): Just thoughts on the afterlife, things like that. You know, you—in a lot of books such as Tolle’s, we get teachings from Buddhism or Hinduism, and those thoughts don’t go along with, you know, what I was raised to believe as a Christian. So that’s been the biggest thing that I’ve struggled with, I think, so…OPRAH WINFREY (HOST): Well, I am a Christian who believes that there are certainly many more paths to God other than Christianity.KELLY (

ILLINOIS
): Right.OPRAH WINFREY (HOST): I’m a free-thinking Christian who believes that, who believes in my way, but I don’t believe that it’s the only way, with 6 billion people here on the planet. 

Masterfully woven here is truth an error. It’s true that spirituality based on “church authority” is not true spirituality; the other extreme is just in error. The other extreme which is, “I get to pick what works for me – no matter where it comes from.”

 

This in essence makes each of us God. And if that is the case then God does not exist, or is irrelevant!

 

Make no mistake, despite what so many people say, there are radical difference between Christ based spirituality and other religious traditions – whether Buddhism, Islam, other Eastern Religions, mythology, or whatever.

 

I am deeply concerned for those of us who profess Jesus Christ, who call ourselves Christians… We often profess an ultimate right and wrong from God – but in our actions, are we making excuses, justifying, and rationalizing what we want to do, or what makes sense to us?

 

How many Christians do I know who are justifying:

  • Having sex outside of marriage – whether married or un-married
  • Spending money on the stuff of this world
  • Watching and listening to things that defy the way God says to live
  • Pursuing their career like it is their eternal future
  • And more…

 

Now, I’m not saying we are saved by what we do… I’m saying if we really believe in God we might want to look to Him for the ultimate source of wisdom for our life. This is one of the ultimate questions of spirituality – is there a God; if there is, does He have authority in my life?

 

So, I challenge you to be different – to disagree with others and live like it… Live like there’s a God. And go to Him for truth.

 

PS. If you’ve been burned by people who are “religious” please remember that many people who claim the name of Jesus don’t speak or act for Him. Look at Him – not at those people.

KTSY Family Questions – Reading the Bible

Monday, June 30th, 2008


 

“Could you recommend a Bible study plan for me?”

 

I’m attaching a couple Bible Study plans for you to look over. One is for reading the New Testament and the other is for the whole Bible. Pick one and try it.

New Testament Bible Reading

Plan1 Year Bible Reading Plan

 

Here are a few things that have been helpful to me in reading the Bible:

  1. I write things down when I’m reading. Sometimes this is prayers; sometimes this is response and conversation with God about what I’m reading. This helps me slow down and interact with God and the Word.
  2. Don’t read the Bible like a novel. Read it slowly, read your passage more than once. Ask God what He’s saying to you about your life.
  3. Don’t try to read too much. It’s about encountering God, not finishing a set amount of chapters.

More questions – Is it possible to be saved and worry?

Monday, June 23rd, 2008


Another question from the KTSY family:

“Is it possible to believe Jesus is my Savior and yet still struggle with God and his plan for my life? I want to be genuine in my faith and worry about if it really shows. Deep down I have peace that God is control of my life, but sometimes in my day-to-day life I still worry about things of this world, etc.”

 

This is such a fun question – and one I know I face and probably most of us do. Sometimes it seems easier to trust God for eternity – but to trust God with my finances for this month, or what to do about my job or who to deal with my kids seems much more difficult.

 

So, what does this mean? Do I really have faith?

 

Well, on one hand, Jesus said don’t worry… That’s a simple command – don’t worry! On the other hand, we are faced with disciples who constantly worried and did not live in a place of faith. Faith is a growth process. It’s a journey into trusting God. Don’t get discouraged by your worry – rather just let your worry turn you to God and growing your faith.

Family Question – Mental illness vs. demonic possession

Monday, June 16th, 2008

Here’s our first question to talk about together:

“Is mental illness real or is it really demonic possession, I have heard so many times if I had my life right with God I would not have the problems I have and there is no such thing as mental illness.  It gets hard to talk with people about problems when they keep saying it is Satan who is doing it.  Is this scriptural about mental illnesses not being physical?”

 

First of all, thank you for your question. I can tell this has caused you a lot of pain with well meaning Christians diagnosing your situation.

 

Let me begin to answer your question with a question… Last week I was in a school cafeteria, carrying a tray, walking out of the cafeteria up some steps to a meeting that was being held in another area. While I was walking up these stone steps, carrying my tray AND texting on my phone, I tripped and fell, with my shins smacking into this rock step.

 

So, here’s my question: Was my falling a result of demonic oppression or a result of me trying to do too many things at one time and suffering the natural cause and effect of my actions?

 

The question may not be as easy as yes or no. The Bible gives us this warning: 1 Peter 5:8 a “Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.” So, did he want me to fall and hurt myself? Well, Satan isn’t able to be everywhere and know everything, so I’m not sure he knew much about it, but his demons were happy to see me in pain. And, maybe they encouraged/arranged circumstances/pushed for me to fall. However, the best thing is to NOT TEXT WHILE WALKING! If I fix the problem, I have closed the door to Satan.

 

Secondly, there is such a thing as mental illness. There are brain conditions that are physiological in context. A broken arm is a physical thing. A brain can be broken as well.

 

Now, again, we swing between two extremes on this. One extreme says there is no physical reason for mental illnesses. The other side says everything is physical. However, we are made in the image of God. Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them.” God is a triune being – that means there are three parts of God – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. In the same way we have a mental (Father), physical (Son – God in human flesh) and spiritual side (Holy Spirit). So, all three aspects of our lives interact and impact each other.

 

We know this reality already. Go smash your toe and see how your emotions are doing. Don’t get sleep and feel how close you feel to God. And if you’re really a glutton for punishment, don’t sleep for a few days THEN smash your toe and see how you’re doing emotionally and spiritually.

 

I am often frustrated when I hear people “rebuking” Satan for things. There is a time to do this. However, sometimes if we can simply blame someone else for our problems we don’t have to take responsibility for our own actions. I don’t have to recognize I’m a sinner, I can just blame Satan. Paul himself talks in Romans 7 about how he is a sinner and does things he doesn’t want to do!

 

James 1:14 says, “Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away.” I believe that if Satan were to DIE, we wouldn’t know about it for a really long time. We are already deeply wounded, filled with desires inside us. James 4 says, “1 What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil desires at war within you? 2 You want what you don’t have, so you scheme and kill to get it. You are jealous of what others have, but you can’t get it, so you fight and wage war to take it away from them. Yet you don’t have what you want because you don’t ask God for it. 3 And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong—you want only what will give you pleasure.”

 

This stuff that is hurting inside us, these desires keep us hurting and hurting each other. Satan doesn’t even have to do anything! Instead of focusing on Satan, we should be asking God to heal our desires and hurts! We should dealing with the psychological and spiritual issues of our lives.

 

And there are things that are spiritual. There was a young boy at a church I was at who was suffering from hearing voices telling him that people wanted to kill him, etc. His psychiatrist said it was all in his head and gave him more medication and it didn’t help. He was prayed over and the voice s left him and never came back.

 

I’ve heard of stories of people who have been on anti-depressants that when they work with a spiritual counselor who has led them into healing of emotional and spiritual wounds who are no longer need any medication. There is a huge link between emotional and spiritual; as well as physical conditions.

 

I also want to talk about another component of your question: “Is mental illness real or is it really demonic possession…” Believers in Christ cannot be possessed without their consent. Possession happens as someone turns from God. The Bible says, in John 10:29, “My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.” Satan can challenge and frustrate and antagonize a believer (Satan asked to temp Peter – Luke 22:31, “’Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift you as wheat.’”) but he cannot possess!

 

This is a big question, and I hope you’ve found some answers here. Feel free to reply to this post, or email me at brian@ktsy.org if you’d like some referrals to people who can help you with these issues or if you have questions of your own.